My Body, Myself 

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Over the last 3 years I was able to travel to France a number of times; my son Jake was living in Paris. I fell in love with many things about French culture: their parks, their museums, their clothes, their food, but especially, their French eating habits. I was fascinated to see that the average French woman doesn’t have the same issues around eating and body image that the average American woman has. While French society definitely puts pressure on women to be thin, your average French woman does not dislike her body, does not diet, and is not struggling with the same obsession and anxiety around food that the average American women experiences. 

As my French cousin Martine explained, “We enjoy good food every day, and we move on to other pleasures in our lives. We are not obsessed with eating.” I wanted to figure out what was going on in the minds of French women that could account for the way they successfully navigate their body image and eating. We clearly could use some French Eating Lessons on this side of the Atlantic!

We all know physical appearance is just a part of who you are.  Clearly too much emphasis has been placed on appearance in Kardashian Culture. So, if appearance says little about your value as a person, what does say something about your character and value as a person to you?  How do you define yourself?  Is it in terms of being a loving mom?  A kind friend?  Capable at your job? It's probably a combination of these things that make up your whole you.